The way to plan for the holidays, build a building or a country, a relationship, or anything else is to agree on the common goal. Like attracts like. That’s how the Law of Attraction works. This is the way to build anything.
Focusing on what does not work and not what you do not want sabotages what you do want. No one plans a vacation only focusing on what went wrong with the last vacation no matter how many hours, days, weeks, months or years is sent on focusing on the negative. We remain stuck in what did not work until the second, minute or hour when we decide to consider positive solutions.
It is only when the lightbulb goes of with a new idea for a positive goal or plan that things begin to move in a forward direction. We know this, yet how many times have we consciously or unconsciously dragged down possibilities by getting caught up in the negative whirlwind spun out of control? That does nothing but result in having a bad day, giving headaches, and frustrating energy systems.
Whether we are building a sandcastle, a home, a friendship, or a country, focusing on the next possible forward step in creating our future is the only way to build upon a solid foundation of balance and harmony.
Plans change, ideas change, and people change constantly. In any endeavor change will be present. Change is a constant and fluid occurrence. It is how we deal with change and work together for a common goal that matters. It is not all about having our own way and sticking to it no matter what. Being obstinate does not serve the highest good.
Karma works in these situations. If negative seeds are planted, negative results are produced. When positive, life-affirming seeds are planted in the garden of life, positive results occur.
Notice the goal is not to sabotage the others in the planning and working. Sabotage is nothing but a huge boomerang that always finds its way back to its source.
Working together for the common good is a noble concept worthy of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness which benefits us all.
Namaste